In today’s incredibly complex world most people’s lives are mechanical- dictated by busy schedules and probably unattainable targets.
Interaction with family or loved ones, too, take a backseat in the conundrum of work-life balance.
In such pressure situations, sexual behavior is seldom planned.
This leads individuals to plan to deceive in order to give vent their sexual frustration.
Promises of fidelity take a back seat and we often find people being promiscuous.
One wants to throw caution to the wind, leave logic and reason behind and plunge deep into the sexual cauldron.
Well, let’s look at how to plan for deception and cheating!
The Best Tips on Deception for Cheating
More often than not, such encounters are not planned initially.
They just happen.
But once you get the taste of it, you want to do it often- despite knowing that it is tantamount to gross cheating!
There are thousands of people out there who are looking for extramarital sex or other sexual relationships just because they are not getting enough.
And this is where you are going to get tips on deception and cheating for the sake of sex.
So let’s now get down to brass tacks!
Whether you want to cheat because you’re not getting enough, or you simply want a change, we are not here to pass judgment!
We are here to help.
And help you with deception to the ‘T’.
Deception or cheating is not for every Tom, Dick (pardon the pun) or Mary.
We mean it.
Weathering the storm called guilt is not everybody’s cup of tea.
You can simply collapse under the sheer inner pressure.
So if you are the type that has the hots for somebody but can’t weather the perils of a voyage, get out of here right now!
You are still here, so it means only one thing.
You chose to cheat.
You are a married man thinking of committing adultery.
Fine.
But please do not act stupid while you are at it, because a lot of people will feel hurt if you are not careful.
Nobody likes to be cheated upon so the fewer the people who find out, the fewer will be the people who get hurt.
Be damn careful to wipe your tracks behind you!
Just make sure you follow some simple rules.
Here are a few basic rules
- Change your hottie’s name on your phone
Now, let’s assume you have identified who you are going to be screwing around with and are all geared up to go.
The first thing you need to do is enter a fake name on your goddamned phone.
It could be a different form of a familiar name already on the phone.
Just ensure it is not of the same gender as your partner or spouse!
It helps immensely.
You are on the verge of committing adultery with a married woman or a married man.
You better learn the ropes fast or your infidelity will come to a premature end.
- Log out of all devices.
Ensure you are logged out of all chats and apps on your computer as well.
Just so your partner doesn’t get to read those steamy, adulterous messages flitting in while you are watching some shit on prime video.
This should help you a lot though you may not know it.
It ensures you are safe from probable catastrophes.
It is your insurance against adultery!
- Forget emotions, delete those messages
Now that you are using just one channel of communication, it is easy to wipe your tracks clean.
Just ensure that if she or he has sent you juicy boobs or dick pics, have an eyeful and delete them immediately.
Don’t save for posterity the memories of your adulterous, cheating times!
Keep the chat slate clean as well- all those seemingly romantic messages can land you in trouble, should your snoopy partner run into them.
God forbid, but if it happens all hell is going to fly loose!
And game over.
Don’t commit blunders
- Don’t keep photos of your heartthrob
You’ll be making the biggest blunder of your life if you go about clicking photos.
Don’t even think about it.
Remember, you are being unfaithful.
You are committing adultery of the highest order.
If someone else clicks, try not to thrust your face right in front.
If you do, it could be goners for you in this age of viral social media posts.
If you just can’t do without saving some really steamy pics, look for an app that will allow you to save them but looks innocent like a calculator or some such thing.
And keep it locked with secret code!
- Should you let your close associates know?
This is entirely up to you.
The fewer people that know about your extramarital sex life, the better it is for you.
Avoid temptations to brag about your sexual relations amongst your friends unless you are asking for trouble from your spouse or the person you are cheating on.
If a close confidant is helping you in your unfaithful endeavors, fine.
Else try to keep the whole sordid affair under wraps so your deception is not found out
- Set yourself a timeframe
Give your adulterous relationship an expiry date- remember, you are not going in for a lifetime relationship, however sexy your fling maybe.
After all, we are human beings and dragging such sexual relationships for too long can only complicate matters for all concerned.
It was just a fling and anything more than that could be disastrous.
You should know that scorned lovers could turn into pesky little things and go entirely out of hand.
The Other Angle
- Preplan your excuse
When you have a ready, preplanned excuse when you are in an extramarital affair, it is easy to untie yourself.
Have your backup plan ready in your mind.
You could be tired and unkempt due to a long day at work.
If somebody sees you with your flame, you ran into a friend from school or college.
However, never get caught in the act- you just cannot lie your way out!
- Just in case you’re being found out…
Have a simple story ready so you can avoid getting evasive.
Just don’t complicate things and let your life go out of control just for a temporary sexual relationship.
Have your story as close as possible to the facts so you don’t have to lie more.
Don’t bother to fill in the details and make it complicated.
Keep it as simple as possible and save everybody the blues.
Try to remain calm and don’t divulge info that is not required- just enough to make it sound genuine and not vague.
Conclusion
If you are looking to get into a temporary relationship, go ahead and have a blast without feeling guilty about it.
Enjoy your fling, keep it as short as possible and without any strings attached.
Don’t leave room for excess baggage lest you repent later.
And when you are done, separate amicably and part- not as friends, but for good!
On the other hand, if you are found out and you are going to feel rotten about it, think again!
You shouldn’t be thinking of getting into a fling in the first place.
It was perhaps a chance meeting but getting into a relationship, even temporary, should be out of your own volition.
Else don’t jump into it.
If you are going to feel all bad and morally wrong, don’t do it at all.
You would save yourself the blushes and the others a lot of trouble and heartache!
Just stick with your partner and fantasize about your days- and nights in his or her company.
That’s one sure way of staying happy and satisfied- and out of trouble!
