Paraphilia were considered sexual perversions in the past.
But again, the past wasn’t that libertine and everything was considered a perversion, even oral and anal sex.
But times have changed and now it’s somehow acceptable to have some kinks which are out of the common.
It’s considered like sex fantasies.
And with the help of the internet, you can satisfy so many of them.
Let’s talk more about Paraphilia and the many forms of sexual arousal that the complex human sexuality can come up with.
Paraphilia: Why do people have these fantasies
With so many sexual fantasies, it’s hard to draw a line between normal sexual behavior and deviant one.
But even in the case of deviant one, as long as it isn’t against the law, it shouldn’t be frowned upon.
Not all people understand, though.
Not everyone is willing to accept the fantasies of others.
Some people can’t accept even their own fantasies.
But here, we’re tolerant with the sexuality of our readers.
We encourage a healthy exploration of ones fantasy and we only want our readers to find satisfaction in a safe and healthy environment.
The reasons for which people have fantasies that are out of the common is not well known.
Depending on their fantasies, there can be so many root causes.
Some of the fantasies can have to do with their mental state.
Some others are related to episodes they lived in the past.
But in most cases it’s a slippery slope that starts with one moment of arousal, and it’s built up on that to become a passion, and sometimes, if not managed right, an obsession.
In this article we will focus mostly on the healthy forms of paraphilia, because there are such things, which people are enjoying and which are helping them reach a fulfilling sex life, either alone or together with a partner.
Some of the most common healthy forms of paraphilia are exhibitionism, fetishism, sexual masochism, sexual sadism, transvestic fetishism and voyeurism.
Starting with the first one, we have exhibitionism.
I assume that the name is pretty self-explanatory.
Men and women who have this paraphilia will feel an urge to expose themselves or their partners to others in sexual ways.
This means sharing photos of themselves to strangers, or even doing it live.
The most often encountered form of exhibitionism is nudism.
Everyone who enjoys going nude at the does it for this reason.
They enjoy others looking at them.
But this desire can take forms that are more sexual.
Couples who like to indulge in threesomes or swinging sessions are also presenting elements of exhibitionism.
On the other hand, voyeurism is a double-edged sword.
It’s exactly the opposite of exhibitionism.
Is the pleasure you get from watching other people in intimate moments, and because of that, you can figure out why it can be problematic.
The people in whom this sexual impulse is too strong might be pushed to do things that are breaking the legal boundaries of intimacy.
Some are installing spy cams in bathrooms or changing rooms, or they are peeking at windows in the neighborhood.
But there are ways in which you can enjoy this kink in a healthy and legal manner.
Again, I’m going to use the nudist beach example, where the exhibitionists are going to be watched, and where people who are into voyeurism can go and watch others.
It’s a win-win situation.
Other places where one can enjoy his voyeuristic pleasures are the swingers club, strip clubs and if they are lucky, maybe they can find a couple on Craigslist who likes to be watched while they have sex.
Sexual masochism and sexual sadism go hand in hand.
These forms of paraphilia are at the base of BDSM, which I would say it’s more than a kink.
BDSM has evolved in such way that it became a way of life.
I could go as far as saying that it became a culture.
There are more and more couples who are discovering the pleasures of BDSM.
It’s also a big industry, which is selling gears and toys for couples to enhance their sex life.
In some cases, the use of sadism and masochism in a couple’s sex life can actually be benefic for their relationship.
All the tension that’s accumulated in small fights and in misunderstandings during the day, can be released in a session of dom/sub games.
But not all couples are willing to step together in this kink.
In some cases, it’s just one of them who has a thing for sadism or masochism.
The easiest life is for the men who have a masochistic pleasure.
That’s because they can find some relief with a paid dominatrix.
There are mistresses who can professionally hurt and degrade a man in exchange of money.
But there aren’t as many escorts for the sadist men.
Not so many call-girls are willing to be slaves for some stranger who will tie them up and inflict pain on their body, and that’s kind of understandable.
However, there are forums and chat rooms where BDSM communities are coming together and where a sadistic man can easily find a woman who is lusting to be used and abused because of her masochist urges.
Let’s talk next about transvestic fetishism.
This is a paraphilia that’s usually found in men.
I haven’t seen so many ladies who want to play transvestic games and I don’t know if wearing a strap on and fucking another girl in a lesbian encounter or pegging a man counts as a transvestic activity.
But on the other hand, men are so into transvestic kinks.
One of the most common activities that fulfills this fantasy is the sissy training.
In this one, men are dressing up in the most feminine outfits they could find.
In most cases, they do it as a humiliation game in a session with a dominatrix, and sometimes they even get pegged with a strap on.
But there are men who do this by themselves.
There are men who are becoming sissies for other men, and they let themselves fucked in the ass by manly dudes.
Another kink that men with this fantasy have is wearing sexy lingerie underneath their regular man clothing.
This is one of the most common kinks when it comes to transvestite paraphilia.
I left fetishism at the end because this form of paraphilia includes so many kinks and fantasies.
From the simple feet fetish, in which I indulge myself, to furry lifestyle, there are so many fetishes that can be sexualized and used for intense pleasures.
In the past years, we’ve seen a big rise in dipper fetish, meaning adults who are wearing diapers for sexual purpose.
And it’s not just for the aspect of it.
They actually use them and they want someone to change them, which is the most intense part of the fetish.
The furry fantasy also boomed in the past years.
I want to say that it’s because of the My Little Pony adult fanbase, who has sexualized the famous cartoons, but there are so many other types of furry communities around the world, that it’s hard to pinpoint which is the root of this naughty culture.
However, one of the most common fetishes and the most acceptable forms of paraphilia is and will always be the feet fetish.
I have it, you might have it, even famous people have it.
Quentin Tarantino is one of the most famous feet fetishists, with this kink making its way in so many of his movies.
All in all, people with a feet fetish are the luckiest.
It’s the most accepted by any woman, as they find feet worshipping flattering most of the time, and there’s so much content featuring feet play on the internet, that you’ll never run out of porn.
I like to look at girls’ feet
Let me tell you more about how the feet fetish is manifesting in my case.
All I can say is that I love summer so much.
Summer is my favorite time of the year, because all girls are wearing sandals and flip flops.
There are so many sexy feet around me on the bus, at the beach and in the mall, that summertime has me horny all day long.
And no one suspects that you are peeping at a lady’s feet.
They will all catch you staring at their breasts or at their asses, but none of them will say anything if you look at their feet.
They just think you’re lost in your thoughts.
However, make sure you’re not biting your lips or getting a visible boner.
I Like Footjobs
And I told you a couple of paragraphs ago how most women are ok with the feet fetish.
Well, all the girlfriends that I had so fat have been ok with giving me a footjob.
I love footjobs the most.
I cum from a footjob faster than I do from a handjob, blowjob or from banging.
And watching my cum covering the sexy delicate feet of a woman is the best sight in the world.
Some of the girls I’ve been with, who were a bit naughtier, were also willing to lick the cum off their feet.
I don’t know why I didn’t marry those girls.
Probably because I knew that there will be more like them in my life.
So, if you have a girl and a feet fetish, you should break it out to here.
Chances are she will indulge in feet play with you.
ASMR Sex & Live Sex JOI
Another fetish that has been popping up lately is ASMR Sex and sex JOI.
This is basically listening to girls sucking on bananas, licking lollypops or ever fingering their wet pussy.
But it’s all done in front of a microphone that records from super up close and when the sound reaches your ears, you will feel like the action is happening right in front of you.
It’s a way of playing with your senses.
And some cam girls have included ASMR in their live sex JOI sessions, in which they will tell you all kinds of dirty things and jerk off instructions and make you feel like they’re in your head.
It’s one of the most intense sensations in the world of virtual sex.
