The world of meeting girl online, flirting and socializing has changed immensely in the last few decades as technology shifts on what seems to be a weekly basis.
With the introduction of the internet and social media, our interactions with others have become very different.
We have a new way of building social circles and introducing ourselves to others with whom we may be interested in.
We are no longer are relegated to only in-person social interactions if we are looking to have some fun with someone.
The online world has opened the door to flirting in the virtual world as well.
Social Networks: The Best Place to Flirt Online
Once upon a time, you would meet someone socially, start a conversation then woo them with small gifts, compliments and phone calls.
In today’s online world, flirting has become somewhat of a renewed artform.
Because you generally do not have the ability to see and use body language online, you have to balance the subtlety of language and insight.
It is easy to come on do on to strong and be creepy, but you also do not want to be so subtle that no one acknowledges your presence.
You must find the best way to engage with others in a virtual world, so they want to chat with you as well.
There are many ways to engage with others on social media.
You may choose one platform over another or use all of them to create your online social circle.
Whether you are using Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Periscope or Snapchat, you should follow some basic guidelines if you want to flirt and make some new online friends.
- Make sure the pictures you use are fresh (not old and stale).No matter what platform you are using, but especially if its Facebook or Instagram, you want to make sure your pictures are up to date so it is almost like a dating profile.Use a nice profile picture of you that is not only flattering but is current.Don’t use one from 10 years ago or one that is some blurry moment of you downing shots in a bar.
Make sure you are in the profile picture.
As odd as that sounds, many post pics they are not even in.
Although your dog and cat may be adorable, potential flirtations are not going to want to know what your pets look like as it is you, they want to see so they know who they are chatting to.
This applies no matter how cute your pets are.
Stay away from pictures with your ex or large groups as it then becomes hard for people to know which one you are in the picture.
The other profile picture suggestion is to stay away from those bathroom selfies.
You want to look like an adult, not a 14-year-old kid who doesn’t know better.
- Use some thought before you post to any social media site.You are presenting a certain image to whoever has access to your accounts, so you want to make sure whatever look you put forward is well thought out and tasteful.This also goes for things you are tagged in.You are going to be judged by both what you put out online along with what others tag you in as well.Make sure you take off any tags if they are controversial or offensive.Even if it is not you that is being the controversial one, you probably do not want your name attached to someone who is being offensive thus making you seem undatable.
Make your online image one of who you really are.
Portray yourself in the best possible light.
When you post content whether it be pictures, posts or tweets make them thoughtful, witty and warm.
You want people to be drawn to you, not scared.
If you are too over the top, forceful and opinionated then people are going to back away.
Most people looking to flirt are not looking for a political or any other confrontation.
- Creepy is not going to enhance any flirting.When you meet someone in your real world, you tend to have somebody’s language and other signals that let someone know you are interested in them.You want to let them know without being too aggressive or seeming desperate.Flirting in the social world is the same but without the body language.You want to let someone know you are interested and your intentions without coming across as creepy or desperate.
Depending on what platform you are engaging in you will be able to look through someone’s timeline or feed to learn a little bit about them.
Facebook, Instagram and Twitter will give you the most info if the person’s settings are on public but SnapChat and Periscope are more limited.
For the platforms that use likes as a form of acknowledgment, be careful if you are deep in the person’s feed.
While you may just be looking, multiple lives, loves and comments can be somewhat shocking as you can doing the same thing on posts that are months old.
It basically begins to look like digital stalking.
However, if you do hit a like or a thumbs up by accident, just leave it alone in the hopes they will take it as interest rather than being a little creepy.
Use your contact tactfully, sparingly and with tactics.
You want to be interested and thoughtful through strategic contact.
- Going hand in hand with not creeping someone’s older timeline feed is the fact that you should not go crazy with the lives, loves and retweets.While deep likes (likes on things from months ago) are creepy, liking a ton of someone’s pictures one after another is as well.It is cool to selectively like a few pics here and there but liking everything you see once again begin comes stalkerish.You want to flirt not frighten.If you are aiming to flirt, then like comments and pictures that are a mix.Comments that intrigue you and pictures that are enjoyable.
If you like a selfie then you are actually complimenting their looks and signals interest but likely everything they tweet, post, snap or film is only going to make them wary of your intentions.
- Do they like, love, retweet back?If you want to start some serious flirting, then watch for those people’s accounts who are reacting to yours as well.If someone is engaging with you on social media and commenting on snaps, pics or simply liking something then you know they have got you on their radar.Your whole goal of starting a flirtation was to be noticed.If you have been then you can start towards the next steps.Maybe a DM (direct message) or a private snap.
That doesn’t mean you suddenly should become invasive into their social media but a quick note hello or a funny pic that relates to something they have posted is great.
It is non-threatening and shows that you want to take the interaction a little further.
The other thing to notice is if they are not that into you.
There is no point (other than to be annoying) to engage with someone who has no interest in replying to you.
If they are showing no signs of interest, then back away and look for someone who may act otherwise.
Rules online are the same in the real world when it comes to interest in anyone, no means no so do not be a jerk by continually bothering them when they have no intention of replying.
You will end up being blocked and reported.
- Once again real life manners apply online as well.If there is something you would not do in real life, do not do it on social media.When you are flirting, you really do not want to be sending pictures of your “stuff” in DM’s.You are on social media, not a porn site.The only time you do that is if you are on a site just for that.Do not leave comments and pics that are sexually explicit.
Social media isn’t just for flirting some people’s families are linked in as well.
No one needs to see a pic of your privates, especially without warning.
The other thing to be aware of is some social media will hang on to pics you send and others are gone so if you are at the point in flirting where someone asks for a pic that is a little more risqué, use SnapChat rather than Facebook.
SnapChat’s pics will disappear.
However, be aware people can always screenshot things so you can never completely be sure that your pics aren’t out there somewhere.
- If you are going to flirt online be ready for the person you are engaging with to expect a little more at some point.While many hide behind a computer keyboard, others are going to want to move along in their online relationships.While they may not be looking for an in-person meetup, they may want to start video chatting or at least talking beyond text and messages.You can continue your flirtation by using Skye, Facetime or other video conferencing along with friending them on other platforms.The whole point of early and simple flirting on social media is to be able to maybe make a connection and move on in the cyber relationship.
- Be clever and witty.If you actually say something in your comments and posts other than just “nice” or “love it” then people will take notice.If your name is coming up on multiple sites and your comments and pics have some depth, people will follow and comment back.It’s a great way to show that you have some depth.Just make sure your whole profile reflects the same thing.You don’t want to start flirting and then whoever you are talking to looks at your bio and it is talking about the 10 bars you went to last week to pick up people.
- Be patient.Don’t just jump on board an account and expect it all to fall into place after a couple of posts.You want to follow people (in a nice way), like some pictures or send a few snaps maybe give a comment on a story over a few weeks’ time.After you have established a safe online persona then you can move into a more flirtatious mode.
- Make sure all your social media reflect the true you.Don’t present yourself one way on Facebook and Instagram then put something else up on Twitter and SnapChat.While each social media platform has its own specific pros and cons, you want to make sure you are not sending mixed messages to those who you are flirting with.You always want to make sure you are not coming across like a shallow, vain person but you also want to make sure your profiles are balanced.Don’t post party pictures on SnapChat but then the person who lives in a library on another.It is not only confusing but people you want to flirt with may become suspicious and distrustful.
It is already difficult to trust people online so do not make it more so by being misleading.
Flirting with others can be fun, exciting and sometimes nerve-wracking.
Online flirtations carry the same issues as the emotional pros and cons as in person.
And while online means you may be able to delay an actual person meeting; dishonesty will catch up to you.
If you are going to flirt on social media, make sure you know how the platform you are using works and apply the same codes of conduct you would in real life.
Be polite, witty, friendly and non-threatening.
Work on coming across as genuine and interested.
People tend to be somewhat more cautious online simply because we all know there is the potential for others not to be fully truthful if they are not physically present and are halfway around the world.
Flirting online can be a lot of fun and lead to real relationships be it friendship or more.
Treat people well, have some class and you will be flirting with others in no time.
Instagram Live Porn
Although Instagram is not allowing porn on their platform, that doesn’t mean they can control what goes on in the lives the people are making.
Even some celebrities are messing up and they offer porn to their fans in the live videos.
One of the most famous Instagram live porn scandals is featuring Boonk Gang in his live sex escapade in which he gets drunk and high on live video while a girl is blowing him, after which he proceeds to bang her.
The live video was taken down off Instagram, but fans have recorded it, and it can now be found all over the internet.
So many other celebrities have accidentally shown their tits or pussies on live Instagram feeds, and you can find the recordings online.
Facebook Groups
Facebook Groups are known for being the perfect place for hookups.
Since a group can be set to be both anonymous and private, members can act in that group however they want, because none of their Facebook friends and families will see what they post or what they comment.
And there are Facebook groups for everything, including for live porn in your area.
And I’m talking real singles in your area, not like in those ads you get on porn sites.
You can sure find such a group where flirting online not only that is permitted, but it’s actually encouraged.
Twitter Live Porn
Porn on Twitter is a bit different.
This platform can be used to keep in touch with your favorite porn stars.
Whenever they are shooting an interesting scene, they are live Tweeting from the studio.
There are so many previews and behind the scene photos and videos that can be enjoyed.
Also, by following your favorite porn stars on Twitter, you will also keep in touch with their personal life and learn more about how they are as a person.
On top of that, by keeping an eye on the Tweeter feed of your favorite porn girl, you will know if she has a live event near you, so that you can finally see her in person.
Snap Porn
I’m not saying that Snap chat was created for porn, but it is used by so many girls to sell their nudes online.
On top of that, there are so many private Snapchat accounts you can buy access to and they come with so much homemade porn.
Not only that young girls from all around the world are creating porn in their bedroom, which they sell through Snap chat, but your favorite porn stars are also running private Snap accounts where you can enjoy their private sex lives.
Periscope
Periscope is one of the most permissive social platforms on the internet.
It’s a live streaming service that doesn’t have anything against nudity.
Not only that, but they allow full-on hardcore sex.
Just like Snap Chat, Periscope has the private feature, through which you can buy access to the live feed or horny and hot teen girls.
There are so many girls who are stripping and masturbating live on Periscope, but also couples who are having wild sex in front of the camera on this platform.
