It takes all kinds of people to make up this world of ours.
Among them, we have these guys who have a strong fetish for girls’ feet.
Yes, they just like to look at girls’ feet.
And probably fantasize about them.
They like to take those feet in their hands and fondle them.
They like to make the girls feel nice and comfortable.
A guy would probably apply gel or cream on the supple feet while at it.
His caresses make the feet nice and soft and maybe arouse the girl just enough for a great time in bed.
Inevitably he looks at the feet longingly and desires them to slide up and down the penis to jerk him off!
That’s the ultimate goal- climax to a nicety.
Foot fetishism, foot worship, or foot partialism, also known as podophilia, is quite a common fetish in people of either sex.
It is a definitive sexual interest in feet. Perhaps foot fetishism is the commonest of fetishes related to non-sexual parts of the human body.
This fetish is more pronounced among men than in women.
Characteristics of foot worship
Some guys jump at the first opportunity to paint a girl’s toenails because they are so much in love with the girl but may not admit it.
However, we are looking beyond them at those who are actually attracted to feet, sexually.
A person who is fond of foot worship is attracted to feet by a variety of factors.
They include the size and shape of the feet, the size, and shape of the toes and toenails, smell of the feet, footwear, the urge to kiss, lick or suck toes and feet, etc.
You could also add tickling and rubbing the feet as well as rubbing the penis or vagina with feet for sexual gratification.
Some die-hard foot fetish people are sexually aroused by the smell of feet and used socks or stockings.
It would be fair to say that foot fetish is a very common one and can be considered a healthy sexual habit.
Well, it may surprise many who are not in the know but sooner or later, everyone comes across the fetish of foot worshipping.
For some guys, the plain bare feet of girls are way more attractive and erotic than seeing her naked.
A guy with a profound foot fetish loves to worship a girl’s feet.
He would suck on her toes, rub the feet and fondle them, tickle the soles and the like.
He would most of all want to rub her feet on his penis and ejaculate on them.
He would actually love it if you could give him what is popularly known as a foot job.
A foot job is similar to a hand job, only you use your feet instead of your hands!
The guy may even like to have you walk on him in your bare feet, kneading him with your soles, heels or toes.
If you are a girl and you are worried about a guy’s foot fetish, there’s nothing to really be worried about.
It is quite a normal thing unless your guy is overly obsessed with it.
In the sense, he wants nothing but your feet!
And there’s nothing wrong, too, for you to indulge in his fantasies.
You could have him indulge in your fantasies too and it would then be double the fun!
You could get a guy aroused and really hard by sliding your bare feet along his thighs, up into his crotch and then rubbing his penis ever so softly with your dainty feet.
It could lead to a very nice sexual experience.
Some Causes of Foot Fetishes
Just like one part can turn a guy on than some other body parts, the foot fetish can be caused due to various factors, say the experts.
A submissive desire
Dr.Dawn Michael, a clinical sexologist explained, “For men with a foot fetish it may be the only thing that gets them aroused- either touching the feet, fantasizing about it or talking about it.
Some men have said that they want to be submissive to a woman's foot, lay at her feet, rub, touch, and smell her feet and toes, and lick them.
Early experience with feet Another expert in the field, O’Reilly, talked about what is called the ‘Pavlovian response’.
According to him, we develop certain fetishes in response to specific erotic associations.
If, for example, one had an experience early on in life that involved feet, the brain may have formed an erotic association with it
Specific causes may not be present
Most experts, however, agree that a foot fetish may only be a part of personal traits, with nothing specific to attribute it to.
In other words, it is as good as having a boob fetish or a butt fetish.
Misconceptions about Foot Fetishes
Although it is one of the most common fetishes, there are some stigmas and misconceptions about foot fetish.
But you need not pay heed to all that balderdash.
Leave it to each individual to feel empowered and be exactly what they want to be or fantasize about.
After all, a person with a foot fetish that was triggered at a young age is likely to have that trait all his life.
It is not at all likely that he would outgrow the fetish.
And since it is his ‘erogenous’ zone, let it be!
Incorporate Your Fetish into Your Sex Life
If you are a person with a foot fetish, you need to accept it as just another normal aspect of yourself, because that is exactly what it is.
Even if it means that you talk about it with a therapist or others with the same fetish.
You neither need to feel apologetic nor embarrassed.
Just get online!
There are numerous communities and sites that will tell you more and you can indulge all you want.
Also, you can be selective about your date or partner.
As O’Reilly says, “Sexual compatibility is about being similarly open-minded; it is not about having the same desires, but respecting one another’s desires.
If your partner judges you and isn’t willing to work through this judgment (this is their job, not yours), you are not sexually compatible.
However, you need to respect your partner’s limitations, if any, and go slow.
She could take time to get into your groove if she hasn’t come across such ideas or such fantasies.
So bide your time, gradually take her into confidence, and do for her what she needs.
Your goal is to make your foot fetish a part of your healthy sexual life.
It is something that turns you on and that is absolutely normal.
All you need to ensure is to also get your partner going.
Your sexual intimacy should never be one-sided, after all!
Weave it into your foreplay rather than making it your objective.
Then go ahead and have a whale of a time.
Feet, after all, was not meant just for walking!