Flirting is an art and something that doesn’t come naturally to everyone.
But if you can get the hang of it there are some great benefits.
It can be fun, mentally stimulating, give you a positive outlook and reduce your stress levels.
If you are a really good flirt, it can even boost your self-esteem when you get someone flirting back with you.
The thing with flirting is that there is a line between being teasingly flirty and offensive.
It is important to know the difference if you want a positive response from a girl.
The more you flirt, the better you will get at it and who knows where some fun, flirty questions will get you when you talk to a girl?
List of Tips of Flirty Questions to Ask a Girl
How you flirt can depend on how well you know a girl. Some questions are meant for use after just meeting, others after a few dates and others once you have been together for a while.
Just Met
- Can I tell you that you look really nice tonight (today)?
A question that shows you noticed her and that she is pretty. It doesn’t mean it is all about the clothes as it’s a nice general statement.
- Any chance I can be lucky enough to have dinner with you this weekend?
While you are asking her on a date, it is flirty enough to show she is special.
- How are you still single?
Ok, this is cheesy, but you may just get a giggle for it because it is so hokey.
- What turns you on more than anything else with a guy?
This sounds a little more aggressive, but it could be as simple as his eyes, his butt or maybe she will say something about your that is a turn on.
- Are you up for some fun right now?
A light, flirtatious challenge.
- Are you always so funny?
Complimentary and positive.
- Wanna go on an adventure with me?
This can be taken in many ways the perfect flirt.
- Can I share my umbrella with you?
A gentleman is always loved.
- May I sit here?
The first flirt to start the fun.
- What do you love to talk about?
Shows your interest.
After a Couple of Dates
- Are you someone who likes to kiss or cuddle when you are relaxing at home?
This is a question that isn’t pushy but lets you know you are interested in home time as well as dates.
- What is the first thing you thought when we first met each other?
This can be a good way to get a laugh or a compliment. Either is good if you are flirting after a few dates.
- What annoys you?
This sounds non-flirty, but it is actually a great way to get to know a girl. She can rant or kid with you.
- Can I kiss you when next time I see you?
By text, this can be very flirty and tempting.
- How do you sleep, clothes or no clothes?
Nothing like a discussion around sleepwear by text to add to the flirting.
- Can we hang out at one of our places some time?
Shows you are interested in quiet time along with dates.
- Are you someone who loves romance?
Gets past flirting and into more serious.
- Can I cook dinner for you?
Nothing more tempting than a guy who can cook well.
- What is your favorite food?
It shows interest and can lead to a nice surprise dinner to go to or cook.
- What is your favorite flower? It is almost as pretty as you.
Flattering. You can buy them the next date if you can find them.
Longer-Term
- If we could travel anywhere right now, where would you like to go?
There are very few women who don’t love to dream about travel. It is a flirtation that shows you are looking beyond a first date and may be somewhere you can enjoy together eventually.
- Could I buy you an outfit that you would like, and we will go out somewhere special?
While it’s a little old school, its flattering offer which she may or may not accept. Either way, the offer is flirtatious and nice.
- Wow! Have you been working out? You are looking really fit.
Be careful with this one. You don’t want to imply she was heavy or out of shape. You just want to say she looks good and toned.
- Have I told you how amazing you are?
A great way to affirm you like her.
- What are you wearing?
Nothing like a text or phone call that is temptingly flirtatious.
- I can’t wait to kiss you, how about you?
This opens the door to a whole lot of flirtatious conversation options.
- What is your biggest turn on?
This is great sent by text. Talk about things to do next time you are.
- Do you think we are good for each other?
A flirt for those who have been together for a while. The answer is hopefully yes.
- Will you let me undress you?
For those who have been together a while, the perfect flirt and tease.
- Do you think we are going to fall in love?
A flirt towards the future.
